How to tell people things that they will feel embarrased about?

Finally got hold of the pictures took last monday. Only 8 turned up, hope to see more the next time.

Recently saw alot of zao geng, but dunno how to tell them leh. This brings me to a theory that i wanted to write months ago, but lazy to finish it. I'm sure many of you have encountered situations when your friend forgot to zip or someone come very close to you and he/she gpt bad breath and you feel very uncomfortable smelling it. In such cases, what do you do? I once asked some friends what should i do if i saw someone of the opposite sex revealing herself, the answers were mainly the same, they say i should let another female know about it and ask her to let the person know. But i was thinking like, if like that then another person will know what, then the ger will embarrase herself even further. No? ok loh, if like that, then whatever loh. But i once saw a male friend using another method, which i feel damn funny. He will tell the girl, "hey, dun bend so low leh, i dun wan see leh." Then he will turn away his head to stop staring at it. But guys being guys, will surely take a look first mah. The only diff is how long the look. I, myself last time will take a long look for those that i do not know, but for those that i know, i will not wan to see. But recently, i changed le, all i dun feel like seeing. Am i becoming gay? Oh no... Haha, stupid me, no matter what, I WILL NEVER BECOME A GAY. When i encounter such situations of seeing someone revealing herself, i will choose to keep quiet loh, if not very embarrasing mah, but if the girl is very close to me, then i will straightaway let her know. But since all the girls i asked want to be informed, but only by another female, Guys, next time u saw a friend zao geng, make sure u let another female know, so as to inform her. But if a female saw a guy revealing himself, erm how will i wan to be informed?, i think juz tell him secretly lloh, since guys should be quite ok with such things. I think to guys, its better to let the least number of people to know. But i think hoh, maybe another good solution is you sms the person, then like that less people know and dun have to see the person face-to-face.

But if its bad breath leh, how? I personally use 2 methods before, but only to people i super close to. Firstly, i will directly let the person know, hey 口臭！Then she will hit me lah, so this method quite lousy, haha. Second method is indirectly let the person know, "erm, you wan to have a sweet?" or "hey, drink water leh!" This method better, they will get my hint most of the time, but i think is because i use the first method many times before, kanna hit until cannot take it, then change to 2nd method to let them know. But if the people are someone you are not closed with leh, like a project mate, or a colleague, then how? Ermmm, for me, in such cases, i will try to ENDURE, or try to move further apart or try to offer a sweet after they move away, to prevent the next time. So thats it for this theory.

PS: Use only the direct method if you are super close to the person! But if kanna hit, then sorry about that!

First OT

Yesterday I had my first OT. Actually, it is sort of like i wanted to finish all that is necessary b4 i left, can leave it for tml one, but dunno why, just dun feel going home so early, so dily daly a bit loh. Recently, heard many people say I am clever, or not stupid, but i dun quite agree with them loh. I think i'm just average, maybe even abit dumb. So what i'm an undergrad, that does not mean i'm clever what, maybe cos i'm a mugger? Ha, but people who really know me will know if i'm one lah. If i'm clever, i will be able to stop myself from thinking about the negative things that happened, i will be able to stop myself from holding onto something that i should just let go. I will be able to stop myself from doing the wrong things. Actually, thought of many things to write yeaterday b4 i sleep, but today forgot all already. In conclusion, I dun think i'm clever, just average or abit dumb. Even my father has been calling me Ah Gon since young, maybe i am really Gon.
Anyway, met a group of secondary classmates on Monday, time really flies, its been 7 years since I was preparing for my O levels, now we are already adults, the girls are even working already, now they will even talk about getting married, wow, last time the cry babies, kiasu, crazy girls are already thinking of settling down already and i'm still like wasting my time away, really must grow up already. But really enjoyed meeting up with all of them. Quoting what Pauline say: " The next time we meet will be in someone's wedding", time really flies. Now who will be the first? And who will be there? Haha, i think only Jiahao and Elton will understand.

PS: I am not some popular or clever guy, i'm just one pathetic gon kia.

2 weeks already

Wah, recently the flu virus damn powerful. In my work place, got 2 got it already, then back home, my stupid sister also had it. In the end, i kanna, until quite bad. Hope can get better soon! I just got back my exam results, although its better than the previous sem, but its still not enough to get me to my aim, sigh, first class really damn hard to get sia, those that are doing well really quite zai, abit pei fu, but only a bit, i still dun think i'm stupider than them. Anyway, my main topic for this entry is, its 2 weeks already. Then after 2 weeks of thinking, i finally thought it through, i must grow up already. 23 years old soon, i cannot afford to be childish and dunno how to think anymore. I must start thinking about the future and treat those people close to me better and stop taking them for granted. It means, i must stop being rude to my parents and sisters. Must respect them now and be thankful to whatever they did for me. Then i must also stop having expectations for people that i should not have. Must start thinking and behave like a 23 years old already. 1 more thing, i want to stop scolding vulgar languages already, so if anyone hears me scolding, please correct me. And please correct me, if i'm childish again. But not to worry, i'll still have many lame entries in the future, lame is not childish mah. Sorry about that!

1 week already

Its been one week since we last talk properly. Still waiting for you to call.

Human Beings

Recently, someone i treasure alot decide to leave me, i dun wan it to happen, but there is nothing i can do about it. But i will wait, wait for the person to come back, if possible. This got me thinking, Human Beings are very stupid people actually.
I once saw a show that says HOPE is what pushes humans to carry on living. Without hope, there will be nothing we can look forward to, nothing to allow us to work towards to. But it is also this hope thingy that make us do things that are stupid. We rely on hope too much already. For example, everybody hopes that they can strike 4D, but the probability of striking is so damn low lah, but every weekends, surely will have people hoping to strkie and waste a fortune buying 4D. If they decide to save the sum that they spent of 4D, maybe they can become millionaire already. Human Beings are smarter than animals, but when it comes to certain things, they will rely on hope more than on their brains.
Even if you know you should take this path, you will hope that another path can lead you to better things, but the probability of that happening is so damn low lah. Like for me, even though i know i should forget about this person ever coming back, but i will still hope that the person comes back and i will waste my youth waiting for it to happen. Stupid right? I'm been thru education one leh, so cannot say i'm really that stupid what, but i will still hope. Maybe one day, i can then see the light, but dun think it will be soon.

One more thing i have heard recently, Human Beings are born evil, its only through education and teachings that we then know what is right and what is wrong and we should not do what is wrong. I always believe that humans are born with a good heart, but due to surroundings and circumstances, then we will start doing the wrong things, but after what that person say, i began to question myself. But it doesn't matter really, no matter you are born evil or good, what matters is that as you grow older, you will do the right things and not give in to temptations.

Last one about human beings, from young, we are taught that as cunning as a fox, but i think, it should be as cunning as a human being. I saw this person A, who in front of person B behaves that he is his friend, then person B treats fairly well also. But in front of people C and D, A will badmouth B and join in C and D when they talked bad about B. Wah, so disgusting lah. If you don't like B, then you should not act like very close with B lah. Its ok, if A don't like B, but talking bad about B while acting like B is A's friend when B treats A good is DISGUSTING. Since kindergarden, i have seen many cases of people kanna left out by certain members of a class, badmouthing him or her, i think its very bad loh. I admit in Kindergarden, i was one of them, but as i grow older, i don't do such things already. So i always try to talk to those that were left out, even if i don't like them, i won't badmouth them or try to get others to join in to ostracize them. I will just leave them alone.