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Sunday, June 24, 2007

How to tell people things that they will feel embarrased about?

Finally got hold of the pictures took last monday. Only 8 turned up, hope to see more the next time.
Recently saw alot of zao geng, but dunno how to tell them leh. This brings me to a theory that i wanted to write months ago, but lazy to finish it. I'm sure many of you have encountered situations when your friend forgot to zip or someone come very close to you and he/she gpt bad breath and you feel very uncomfortable smelling it. In such cases, what do you do? I once asked some friends what should i do if i saw someone of the opposite sex revealing herself, the answers were mainly the same, they say i should let another female know about it and ask her to let the person know. But i was thinking like, if like that then another person will know what, then the ger will embarrase herself even further. No? ok loh, if like that, then whatever loh. But i once saw a male friend using another method, which i feel damn funny. He will tell the girl, "hey, dun bend so low leh, i dun wan see leh." Then he will turn away his head to stop staring at it. But guys being guys, will surely take a look first mah. The only diff is how long the look. I, myself last time will take a long look for those that i do not know, but for those that i know, i will not wan to see. But recently, i changed le, all i dun feel like seeing. Am i becoming gay? Oh no... Haha, stupid me, no matter what, I WILL NEVER BECOME A GAY. When i encounter such situations of seeing someone revealing herself, i will choose to keep quiet loh, if not very embarrasing mah, but if the girl is very close to me, then i will straightaway let her know. But since all the girls i asked want to be informed, but only by another female, Guys, next time u saw a friend zao geng, make sure u let another female know, so as to inform her. But if a female saw a guy revealing himself, erm how will i wan to be informed?, i think juz tell him secretly lloh, since guys should be quite ok with such things. I think to guys, its better to let the least number of people to know. But i think hoh, maybe another good solution is you sms the person, then like that less people know and dun have to see the person face-to-face.
But if its bad breath leh, how? I personally use 2 methods before, but only to people i super close to. Firstly, i will directly let the person know, hey 口臭!Then she will hit me lah, so this method quite lousy, haha. Second method is indirectly let the person know, "erm, you wan to have a sweet?" or "hey, drink water leh!" This method better, they will get my hint most of the time, but i think is because i use the first method many times before, kanna hit until cannot take it, then change to 2nd method to let them know. But if the people are someone you are not closed with leh, like a project mate, or a colleague, then how? Ermmm, for me, in such cases, i will try to ENDURE, or try to move further apart or try to offer a sweet after they move away, to prevent the next time. So thats it for this theory.
PS: Use only the direct method if you are super close to the person! But if kanna hit, then sorry about that!

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a female fiend who keeps zaogenging herself . Below are some of the incidents :

Once she was shopping in Junction 8 shopping centre , as she was squatting down to look at something , I saw her pink underwear she was wearing under her mini demin jeans skirt could be seen exposed above her skirt from behind so clearly !

And when she bend down to try on the shoes , again , her pink underwear could be seen sticking out above that jeans mini skirt . Later when shelooked herself in the mirror in the shop , she saw both her white bra straps was sticking out from her tank top , she was seen adjusting them ! So embarrassing !

8:43 am  
Anonymous Jason said...

In an another incident sometime last month , I saw this young Chinese girl giving out flyers at the Traffic Light Junction at Ang Mo Kio Central zaogeng her bra fasterners . I saw her that she was dressed quite sexily & after I cross the road , I look at her back & saw that she had zaogeng her bra fasterners .

So , I sort of waited till there was not much people then I told her that to pull up her blouse behind her as it can be seen ... After she had tried to pull up , I saw to her right hand side , it still can be seen & I told her in Chinese , this side can see & told her to pull up .

She then thanked me but I could see that she looked quite embarrassed after I told her she had zaogeng & told her to pull up her blouse behind her !

12:46 pm  
Anonymous Alex said...

That day when I was on my way to work at Novena , I saw this lady paying for her purchase at the 7 - Eleven store near the Novena MRT Station . This lady was wearing very nice , but somehow her blouse at the back revealed her bra fasterners so obivously and I happened to enter the store & I stood behind her as she was paying the cashier at the counter !

I bravely went up to her & told her to pull up her blouse behind her slightly as it can be seen .... Later when I went out of the store & she saw me , she thanked me & I saw that she had pull up her blouse but the bra fasterner still could be seen slightly a bit ... So I told her that it can still be seen & told her to pull up again ....

I apologised to her for making her feel very embarraseed by telling her the truth & told her that I thought it was necessary for me to tell her so that it would not be really very embarrassing for her if anyone or her colleagues saw it .

12:48 pm  
Anonymous Peter said...

Yesterday while walking at AMK Central , I saw a young lady wearing a bare back blouse . It bared quite a large part of her back with the black bra fasterners showing across at the middle of her back !

Wonder if she felt that it was sexy so she dress that way ? She couldn't have not known that the bra fasterners will be showing cos she was wearing a bare back blouse ! So I think she must have dress that way on purpose ...

I wanted to tell her as I was walking behind her but there were quite a lot of people then ... Should I have told her ? What will her reaction be then at that time ? I wonder if she will feel very embarrassed if I / anyone were to tell her ? I was quite embarrassed when I saw it showing so clearly !

12:49 pm  
Anonymous John said...

While I was shopping at 7 - Eleven Store at AMk Central BLK 701 Big Mac Centre , I saw this 7 - Eleven salesgirl zaogeng her pink underwear ! She was squatting down on the floor back facing the entrance of the door , sorting out some new stocks to be placed on the shelf ! Unknown to her as she squat down on the floor , her pink underwear showed very clearly from behind her jeans and her shirt was too short to cover her behind !

I wanted very much to tell her but the Store Manager ( a female ) and another salesgirl was there at the counter just behind her . It would be very awakard for me if she started to pull up her jeans after I told her and they would know what I had told her and I would be very embarrassed and awakard instead ! So to save me from being caught in the embarrassing situation , I did not tell her , just pay for what I bought & left .

12:50 pm  

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