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I'm no longer a student. 24 this year, but birthday have not come, single. Dun like to cheong, dun smoke, seldom drink and gamble, dun like ktv also. Love sports.

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Happy Birthday part 3

I just noticed something, that miss vista's birthday is on friday, not thursday, but date still correct lah, stupid me. Nobody noticed right? then treat it as i had never make that mistake. Anyway, i had made the corrections.
Miss Vista, Happy Birthday! Heard that you got bf le, good for you, should i be happy for you? I should, right? But how come, i dun? Instead I got this soury feeling and I feel damn lousy, to the extent of du lan. Dun misunderstood, I'm not du lan with miss vista or her bf, but i'm du lan with myself, why i never make good use of my chance? Its like in a soccer match, i got a golden opportunity, a open goal, but i ge heao (extra), try to do pattern, shoot, hit the crossbar, then the other team counter and score and i lost the match. This type of regret loh, wtf.

Anyway, my 202 group people very nice, they know i damn upset, then they all try to console me loh, by talking about super lame stuff, trying to act like the usual me, make me dunno wanna cry or laugh. Then we tok many topics, like should we be happy for our exs when they found a new partner, well all of us agree that we should lah, but the guys feel that only after some time, while the gers believe that we will be happy immediately if they found someone, wat type of bullshit is that, but nvm, i also no mood to argue with that yesterday. Then one of the ger came up with a theory which i shall cope and use it here. This girl has only 1 serious relationship before loh, but you dun think she like dunno anything loh, this theory of hers is super 伟大, but super unrealistic. Haha. Ok, here goes......
She said that after one ends a relationship, he or she can only go into another relationship after he or she has totally forgotten about the previous one. Like that, it will be fair to the next partner. How unrealistic this can be, i feel that the best way to forgot about the previous one is to go into another one, ok, this may be unfair to that person, but u must also like that person then be together lah. It may be a bit unfair, but with another person's love, then it will be faster for u to forget about the previous one what. If what she says should be how we behave, that means after every relationship, one must wait for about 2 years, then can get into another one? We will always have memories of our previous r/s, it is such memories that teach us how to behave and treat the next bf/gf better. For example, you will know how to take care of someone when she falls sick or what certain expressions means. Learn to say facial expressions is very important and hard to master, especially for guys. Girls will always do stunts on loh, their mouth may say no lah, its alright, but the facial expressions may be smily smily, but only thru experience that u know that face actually means, if u dare to do it, tonight you will get it from me. All guys should try to master this 盖世武功。 Shit, i'm out of point already. Ok to link back, i feel that we should not wait until we totally forget about the previous one then we get into a new r/s, we should be fair to the new partner and once we are certain that if the previous one wanted to patch, we won't do it, then we can get into a new relationship, and by receiving love, then we can empty the love occupied by the previous relationship.
Normally it shouldn't be too long, especially for gers. Guys normally wun wait until the love is totally gone one, haha, ok lah, not all, but most loh. I'm the only exception, haha, sorry about that!

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